humility

i was wondering if we were supposed to also love the arrogant, because of late i have been shunning someone who really has his head so big he probably has to roll around (which is why he seldom comes to school)
i was praying about it because the Bible says that Christ came to lift up the humble, and i was wondering if there was a point trying to save the arrogant because they probably wont listen, neither would they admit their wrong.
1) only God can judge, and say who is arrogant enough to reject the gospel
2) Christ will only come when everyone has heard the gospel.
so there, love your neighbour as yourself.

i realise that i lack a friend, like i've been focusing too much on too many people that i fell behind and now i realise i dont have any close friends, who i can just spend time with slacking. everytime i talk to people there's always an agenda, always a goal to work toward but i've forgotten how to small talk, how to have a friend.
be mine?